The Rant I Had to Have on Same Sex Marriage and Why a Plebiscite is Fundamentally Wrong
If you’ve just awoken from a coma, or perhaps live overseas with absolutely no access to the news, you might not be aware that Australia is in the middle of […]
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If you’ve just awoken from a coma, or perhaps live overseas with absolutely no access to the news, you might not be aware that Australia is in the middle of […]
If you’ve just awoken from a coma, or perhaps live overseas with absolutely no access to the news, you might not be aware that Australia is in the middle of a giant stand-off over marriage equality, the right of gay couples to be legally married.
Admittedly I have lived most of my adult life not really giving two tosses about marriage – it was a straight gig with religious overtones that wasn’t my thing. But things have changed. Now I’m engaged to the woman of my dreams, and I actually do want a wedding – not a civil ceremony or any other substitute, but the real thing – confetti, rings, cake and of course an official certificate.
Successive governments here have dragged their feet over this issue. We are now the only English-speaking democracy left on earth without marriage equality. Our current government seems to be under the sway of a small group of right-wing conservative religious types who really hate the gays, and have done as much as possible to avoid doing anything about SSM since they’ve been in charge.
They promised a plebiscite on the issue, which was not a popular option at all and was voted down in the Senate. Now, having been forced to address the issue again by a dissenting MP, they again tried to push a plebiscite. Again it was voted down by the sensible Senate. And now, the piece de resistance, they have announced a postal “plebiscite” which is actually a survey being conducted by the Australian Bureau of Statistics. And today they announced that Australians had just 15 days to register to vote in it! That fact alone will mean a huge number of young people will miss their chance to vote. And by the way, the result is completely non-binding and would still have to be voted on in the parliament, so even a “Yes” result does not mean automatic SSM.
Sound nuts? Oh I left out the bit where it will cost $122 million dollars to send out all the little envelopes and count up all the returned votes…..by a bureau that doesn’t normally do this sort of thing and has already said it may not be equipped to roll it out.
If you can’t see anything wrong with this whole set-up, stop reading now and go and take a course in logic. I mean, this plan has so many holes in it you could sell it as a crocheted tea cosy.
I’m just going to set out the reasons why a plebiscite (which I will just remind you a postal survey is not) is the wrong thing to do here, and is based purely on bigotry.
1. The idea that 2 people can get married is a very old one. Marriage existed long before organized religion, certainly well before Christian faiths existed. So the argument that marriage needs to follow the rules of any particular religion is flawed. What about atheists? We supposedly live in a secular society, and although our politicians lately have been banging on about how our society is based on Judo-Christian values, one could easily argue that these values exist in plenty of other faiths, and simply reflect a set of ethics rather than a belief in a particular deity. Marriage has nothing to do with religion, and everything to do with love.
Of course gay marige should be legal… Everyone deserves the right to miserable…
That aside – your Number 9. argument Is the single biggest issue for me…
The parliment should just do its job…
This so called need to gauge public opinion is bullshit…
There is no valid reaon preventing the parliment from legislating gay marriage..
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They should just do it…
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Sigh…the state of the world.
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Well said Fiona. It’s been “disappointing” that a forum has been given to all the hateful bigots to “have their say”. Hopefully we’ll be celebrating in a few weeks, but I’m most offended by the damage that has been done to young LGBTI kids living in regional Australia who don’t have a supportive family or community. Those responsible for creating more division should hang their heads in shame.
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